So I had Paul take a picture of my head, emailed it and looked at it and yet this morning when it was time to change the bandage, I said we will wait til after bridge.  So home we come, and mind you I have looked at this picture all day and showed it to people.  But sure enough in front of the mirror when the bandage came down I was devastated and howled like a baby.  Shocking.  I will keep it bandaged for about 3 weeks.